I was more afraid of the social stigma of it all, knowing how judgemental and unforgiving Pakistani people can be about premarital sex.
Then, there was the issue of him becoming a doctor: I thought this was quite cowardly and insincere of him.
What was most telling about him was the group of friends he kept. Dating jhb all three of them hang out together was an eye-opening experience.
Eventually, I woke up to the reality that was playing out in front of my eyes. I realised the kind of future that lay ahead of me if I stayed with Abdul.
We broke up after two years initiated by me and I went backpacking through South-East Asia right after. He moved to the Caribbean to study medicine.
I think back on the datint now, and am so grateful for dodging that bullet. Originally published on sister-hood magazine. Sign in Get started.
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