I sacrificed my career not in medicine but I have advanced degrees in my profession because I felt so lucky to be able to be at home raising my two wonderful sons.
But realistically, if she is not open minded enough to even listen to someone who has a contrasting view of the church - how will she not continually discount you and your lack of beliefs. The thing kow I didn't want to marry someone who I'd never see or spend time with.
After our first kiss she lets me know she won't have sex with me because she's ir and we'd need to be married first.
I'm the overly busy person.