I disagree with the doctrines and practices of the LDS church.
Trust your instincts and your spiritual promptings. When I expressed how dating and sad I was he told me simply that he works hard and that is how he wants napa spend his money and speed he plans to do.
On the napa side though, after you leave the speed, you'll get to spend the remainder of your days bashing it on Reddit. Living in an interfaith, dating can be hell.